My husband only grieved for a few days, and afterwards was very open about the fact that it wouldn't have been tangible to him until he had seen the scan. I saw a friend last weekend who is currently pregnant with her 2nd baby she lost her first baby around 13 weeks and even though she now has a daughter (and another en route) she says that she still gets very sad thinking about it. Mine happened around 8 weeks ago and I still have moments when I feel like I can't breathe (or just crying uncontrollably). It is such a horrible and lonely experience to go through. I miscarried around 13 weeks too (found out at a 12 week scan then naturally miscarried about a week later). Sending you all the luck and men do think very differently to us women but the one thing id say is keep taking to each other ive found this helps a lot.
Im also eager to start trying again but dont know when to start for the best as i am scared of it happening again but so desperate for a baby of my own, my partner has 2 children to his ex his son lives with us and his daughter lives with her mam its even harden for me to deal with as i hear his kids calling him dad ect hurts so much as all ive ever wanted was a family of my own, it took us 18 months to conceive and he was a very much wanted baby now i feel empty again and dont know how im going to cope also have my best friend who is pregnant and is due 7 weeks before i was and a couple of other friends around me also pregnant, like yourself just so want to be pregnant again and everything to be ok. Hi came across your story and its very similar to me we lost our baby 29th March i was 19 weeks and 3 days just over 3 weeks ago i still fell very numb about it all and like yourself keep telling myself things happen for a reason and its not just me going through this it happens to others also.
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